Wednesday, 15 July 2015

A Life Changing Phone Call

Welcome to my blog... My story... My Journey...

I wasn't planning on telling anyone about my weight loss surgery, except for close friends and family. I certainly wasn't planning on writing a blog for the whole world to read. Well, here I am. I feel this is important to share. No hiding! No secrets! I wanted to be able to share my journey with my friends and family on Facebook. Now I want to share my story with the world! Not only is it going to hold me accountable, but maybe I can help someone else with my story. Please note : I am not the greatest writer, as you will notice! I'm going to give it my best shot though!

The following was the post I made (July 5th) on Facebook telling all of my friends and family members that I was about to have a major life changing surgery...


Hello friends and family! This is a long one... But an important one.  I wasn't going to write this, but I thought screw it! I want to be able to share my journey with everyone the next long while.

On June 11th I received a very important call that I had been waiting a long time for. A life changing phone call...

So... Tomorrow, July 6th I am having a major surgery.  A surgery that will save my life.  A surgery that ISN'T the easy way out, as many people incorrectly speculate.  I am having weightloss surgery, or the technical term "Vertical Sleeve Gastrectomy". I will have 85% of my stomach removed and the surgeon will create a new small pouch stomach. It will only hold 3/4 cup approximately. This surgery is going to help me feel full faster. It will help me achieve the dietary goals I was unable to achieve for the past 15 years.

I have been waiting for this for almost 4 years! I have jumped through many hoops to get to this point... Many appointments, with surgeons, dietitians, & psychologists to name a few. I've had countless tests, blood work, xrays, and many trips back and forth to Victoria.  Well it's time! I am so excited and nervous at the same time... I've never had a surgery before.

Since the 12th of June I've been on a very strict pre surgery liquid diet. This diet is to shrink my liver for surgery. This liquid diet is Only 800 calories... consisting of only 3 protein shakes a day. Plus vitamins and water. That's it! No food! It has been extremely hard... Harder than anything I've ever done. Plus, I quit smoking on top of that! I had my pre admission appointment yesterday and I'm happy to say that I have lost a whopping 30 pounds since I started the liquid diet! Crazy eh!? I am having the surgery tomorrow in Victoria. I will be home the 9th if everything goes well.  I have a long journey ahead of me...

This surgery is not a cure.. It's a tool. And I will have to work hard with my new tool to get my results and make sure the weight stays off! 50% of people gain weight back.. I refuse to be a part of that statistic! I will have to follow a very difficult and strict diet..  Right after surgery I start the first of a 5 stage post surgery diet.  Stage 1 clear fluids (broth etc), stage 2 liquids (protein shakes, stained cream soups etc), stage 3 pureed, stage 4 soft foods, and finally... months later, stage 5 regular diet.

So there it is! I am looking forward to sharing my journey with you all... Please think of me tomorrow! I will post once I'm awake and in my hospital room. :)

1 comment:

  1. I think what you are doing is absolutely amazing Ashley, especially because you are doing it for yourself. It takes courage to know we have to change things in our life and actually make an attempt to do those changes. I'm very proud of you! :)

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